National Relationship Equity Day (June 24th)

Quick facts
When is it?	Every June 24th
Tagged as:	Men People & Relationships Women
What's the hashtag?	#NationalRelationshipEquityDay
When was it founded?	2019
Who founded it?	Dr. Oluwafemi “Femi” Ogunjinmi
We first published this page on:	Jun 14th, 2025
We last updated this page:	Jun 14th, 2025

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National Relationship Equity Day is all about fairness in love.

It’s a time when couples take a step back and ask, “Are we supporting each other equally?” Not just splitting chores or bills, but really looking at how they share effort, time, and emotional care.

Some people are great at planning, others at comforting, fixing, or cheering up. This day celebrates that mix, where both partners give what they’re best at—not what’s expected of them.

There’s something powerful about feeling like you’re on the same team. This day invites people to speak up, listen closely, and make sure both voices matter.

When no one feels stuck or overlooked, the whole relationship feels lighter. Respect grows. Trust builds. And even small acts—like asking what your partner needs—can make love feel new again.

How to Celebrate National Relationship Equity Day

Here’s a deeper look at ways to celebrate National Relationship Equity Day—simple acts that carry real meaning.

Trade Roles With Care

Take on something your partner usually handles—something they’ve done so often, it goes unnoticed. Step into that task with full attention.

It’s not just about helping; it’s about understanding. When roles shift, new respect often follows.

Share What You Carry

Sit down and talk about what weighs on each of you. Not just chores or bills, but worries, plans, and invisible work. .Let this moment open the door to more honest, steady support.

Build a Fair Plan

Together, list what each person does in a week—home, work, care, errands. Then ask, “Does this feel fair?” Adjust without blame. The goal isn’t splitting everything equally, but making sure it feels balanced.

Acknowledge the Unseen

Point out something your partner does that often goes unnoticed. Say thank you, not just in words, but with action. Let them rest while you take over.

Let them know they don’t have to earn kindness.

Write Something True

Take a quiet moment and write one paragraph about how your partner brings value to your life. Focus on the qualities that create fairness, kindness, or strength. Then read it out loud. Let those words land.

History of National Relationship Equity Day

National Relationship Equity Day began with the vision of Dr. Oluwafemi “Femi” Ogunjinmi. He launched the day in 2019 to encourage fairness in intimate partnerships.

Ogunjinmi works as a coach and writer. He wanted to change how couples divide tasks and power, moving from outdated roles to fair sharing based on each person’s strengths.

At first, observance stayed local. Dr. Ogunjinmi spread awareness online and encouraged people to use a special badge in 2020.

That small action helped the idea reach more couples. Over time, those aware started practicing equity without regard to gender or tradition.

Now, many households use that day to check in. Each year, more voices take part, and the value grows.

That change happened fast. In a few years, talk about this concept has entered blogs, social media, and relationship circles. Dr. Ogunjinmi also published a book on what he calls the “Five Pillars of Relationship Equity”.

He uses those five ideas—transparency, generosity, flexibility, accountability, humility—to help couples rebalance their bonds. As awareness spreads, this day helps draw attention to fairer partnerships.

National Relationship Equity Day