National Call-in Single Day (February 14th)

Quick facts
When is it?	Every February 14th
Tagged as:	Attitudes & Emotions Life & Living People & Relationships
What's the hashtag?	#NationalCallinSingleDay
When was it founded?	2005
Who founded it?	Yahoo! Personals
We first published this page on:	Jun 3rd, 2024
We last updated this page:	Jan 17th, 2026

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National Call in Single Day celebrates single life as something complete in its own right, not a placeholder for something else. It invites people who are not in romantic relationships to recognize the advantages of independence, invest in the relationships that sustain them, and enjoy the freedom to design everyday life on their own terms.

Rather than positioning singlehood as a problem to solve, the day makes space for many different experiences. Some people are single by choice and feel genuinely energized by it. Others are newly single, healing, busy, caregiving, or simply not interested in dating right now.

National Call-in Single Day keeps the focus on dignity and self-respect, no matter the reason, encouraging people to treat themselves with the same warmth they might readily offer a friend.

Because it falls on the same day that many cultures spotlight romantic love, the celebration also offers a parallel path: while couples may mark the occasion one way, single people can choose rest, connection, laughter, reflection, or adventure without feeling like they have to opt out of the wider world.

It’s not “anti-romance.” It’s pro-wholeness—an upbeat reminder that a person’s worth is not measured by relationship status.

How to Celebrate National Call-in Single Day

Pamper Yourself

Treat the day like an intentional reset. That can mean a spa appointment, a massage, or a fresh haircut, but it can also be simple, private comfort: a long shower, clean sheets, a favorite scent, and a little extra time to move slowly through the day.

The key is choosing something restorative instead of defaulting to whatever fills the time. Some people plan a cozy night in with a movie, a new book, or a short creative project.

Others make relaxation feel more “official” by silencing notifications, putting the phone in another room, and permitting themselves to be unavailable for a few hours.

Adventure Time

Solo plans can be surprisingly energizing because they don’t require negotiation.

A person can wander through a museum at their own pace, take a long walk in a new neighborhood, try a class they’ve been curious about, or spend an afternoon exploring local food and shops without worrying whether anyone else is having fun.

For anyone who’s not used to doing things alone, a low-stakes outing builds confidence quickly: a matinee, a coffee shop visit, a scenic drive, or a guided tour where conversation is optional.

For those who want something bolder, trying a new activity—dance, climbing, cooking, language practice, or a volunteer event—can turn the day into a personal tradition of saying yes to life.

Culinary Delight

Food is an easy way to celebrate without needing a plus-one. Cooking a “fancy” meal can be as small as plating dinner like a restaurant, trying a new recipe, or learning one technique that feels impressive.

People who don’t enjoy cooking can still mark the day with intention by ordering from a favorite place, building a snack board, or setting up a tasting night with a few small treats.

If friends are involved, a potluck keeps things relaxed and social. A theme can make it playful—comfort food, foods from a specific cuisine, breakfast-for-dinner, or “everyone brings the dish they’re known for.” The goal isn’t perfection; it’s the warmth that comes from feeding oneself well and, when desired, sharing that with others.

A singles gathering can be light, friendly, and inclusive—more about connection than about making any grand statement. A game night, karaoke, trivia, or a casual dinner gives people a reason to laugh together and takes pressure off small talk.

Even a small group can feel special when it’s planned with a little care: good snacks, a welcoming vibe, and an activity that helps everyone relax.

This is also a good time to strengthen existing support systems. Single life often runs on community—friends, relatives, neighbors, coworkers, teammates, mentors—people who show up in steady ways.

Reaching out with a simple invitation, a check-in call, or a “want to do something fun?” message can reinforce that romance isn’t the only meaningful bond worth celebrating.

Self-Improvement

Self-improvement works best when it comes from curiosity rather than criticism. The day can be a great moment to start a class, pick up a skill, or make progress on a personal project that’s been waiting for “someday.”

Learning something practical—cooking basics, budgeting, home repair, public speaking, a creative craft—can increase independence and confidence in ways that feel immediately rewarding.

Some people use the day for life maintenance that creates future calm: scheduling health appointments, organizing a living space, updating a resume, setting up automatic savings, or planning meals for the week.

Others prefer reflection—journaling about what matters most, clarifying personal boundaries, or listing the habits and relationships that support well-being. The point is to invest in a life that feels solid and self-directed.

History of National Call-in Single Day

National Call-in Single Day was created by Yahoo! Personals, an online dating service, in 2005. The idea was to offer singles a positive way to experience a day that can feel heavily focused on couples.

By encouraging people to claim time for themselves and approach their love lives on their own terms, the observance framed singlehood as normal, valuable, and worthy of celebration.

The phrase “call in” reflects the original tongue-in-cheek suggestion: instead of spending the day in an office environment that might be filled with couple-centric chatter, singles could call in to work, take a personal day, or at least carve out time that felt like their own.

It was a playful concept with a practical core—taking control of the schedule and choosing an experience that felt supportive rather than awkward.

As conversations about relationship status and self-care became more mainstream, the idea resonated beyond the original campaign. Even after Yahoo! Personals shut down, the observance continued to circulate as a cultural reminder that single life isn’t a consolation prize.

Over time, the celebration broadened from a clever alternative to a wider message: independence can be joyful, friendships and family relationships are worth honoring, and personal happiness is not dependent on being partnered.

Today, National Call in Single Day is marked in many different ways, from quiet self-care to group get-togethers. Its flexibility is part of its staying power. Some people use it to recharge.

Some use it to connect. Some use it to reflect on what they want next, romantically or otherwise. At its heart, the day keeps returning to the same simple idea: a person’s life is worth appreciating as it is, and singlehood can be a strong, fulfilling way to live.

Facts About Singlehood

Singlehood is becoming an increasingly common and visible way of life around the world. More people are choosing to live alone, delay marriage, or remain single long-term for reasons linked to independence, career focus, personal values, and social change. Research shows that being single is not a single experience but a broad spectrum, shaped by choice, culture, and quality of relationships rather than relationship status alone.

Singles Are Now a Major Household Type

In the United States, single-person households have become one of the most common household types: by 2023, about 29% of all U.S. households consisted of people living alone, up from just 13% in 1960. Similar trends appear across many high‑income countries, reflecting delayed marriage, higher divorce rates, and more people choosing to remain single throughout adulthood.
Choosing Singlehood Can Be Linked to Specific Personality Traits

Large-scale research across 27 European countries found that lifelong single adults, on average, tend to score slightly lower than ever‑partnered adults on traits like extraversion and conscientiousness, while also reporting somewhat lower life satisfaction. However, the differences were modest, and the study emphasized that many single adults are well-adjusted and content, especially when they value independence and personal freedom.
Being Single Voluntarily Is Very Different From Feeling Stuck Single

Cross-cultural research comparing types of singlehood shows that involuntarily single people—those who want a partner but don’t have one—report the lowest emotional well-being and life satisfaction.

In contrast, voluntarily single people often have similar or better well-being than people in relationships, especially when they have strong friendships, meaningful work, and satisfying hobbies, highlighting that the quality of one’s relationships and autonomy matters more than relationship status alone.
Singles May Face a Subtle but Measurable Bias Called “Singlism”

Social psychologists have documented a form of discrimination they call “singlism,” where single adults are stereotyped as lonelier, less mature, or less responsible than married people, and may be penalized in housing, workplace expectations, or social invitations. Studies summarized by researchers such as Bella DePaulo show that these biases can appear even when single and married people have similar incomes, personalities, or social networks, revealing a cultural preference for couplehood built into everyday life.
Alone Time Can Boost Wellbeing When It’s Chosen, Not Imposed

Psychological studies on solitude find that spending time alone by choice—engaging in relaxing or meaningful activities—can improve mood, creativity, and self-reflection, and does not necessarily increase loneliness. When solitude is self‑determined rather than the result of social rejection, people often report feeling calmer and more authentic afterward, suggesting that intentional “me time” can be a healthy part of single life.
Singlehood Is Rising Worldwide, Especially in Cities

United Nations data show that the share of adults who are unmarried, divorced, or widowed has been climbing for decades in many regions, with especially high rates of solo living in large cities like Stockholm, Tokyo, and New York. Urban housing markets, women’s increased economic independence, and shifting cultural norms around marriage have all contributed to a global rise in adults spending longer portions of their lives single.
Some Singles Feel the Biggest Wellbeing Dip in Their Late 20s

Long-term panel studies in Germany and the United Kingdom found that young adults who remain consistently single from their teens into their late 20s tend to experience sharper declines in life satisfaction and increases in loneliness than peers who enter relationships. Researchers suggest this may reflect social pressures and expectations about “settling down” in that life stage rather than something inherently harmful about being single.

National Call-in Single Day FAQs

Is being single bad for long-term health and happiness?

Research on relationship status and well-being shows a mixed picture: on average, married or partnered people report higher life satisfaction and physical health than single people, but the differences are modest and depend strongly on whether someone is single by choice, their social support, and personality.

Some studies find that lifelong singles report somewhat lower life satisfaction on average, while others show that single adults with strong friendships, meaningful work, and satisfying leisure can be just as happy and healthy as those in relationships. [1]

What are some common myths about single people that research does not support?

Large studies and expert reviews challenge several stereotypes: being single does not automatically mean someone is lonely, immature, or unable to commit, and many singles actively choose their status for reasons such as autonomy or career focus.

Evidence also shows that single adults often invest more in friendships, community, and family relationships than coupled people, and that personal well-being depends more on social connection and life circumstances than on simply having a romantic partner. [2]

Do single women and single men experience singlehood differently?

Population-based research suggests notable gender differences: single women, on average, report higher satisfaction with being single, higher life satisfaction, and greater sexual satisfaction than single men, even after accounting for age and other factors.

Single men are more likely to report distress about their status, which experts link to gendered expectations around relationships, social support, and economic roles rather than singlehood itself. [3]

How do personality traits influence whether people enjoy being single?

Studies in personality psychology indicate that traits such as extraversion, emotional stability, and low attachment anxiety are associated with greater satisfaction among lifelong singles, while people high in rejection sensitivity or strong desires for partnership are more likely to struggle with singlehood.

Researchers emphasize that whether someone thrives while single depends not just on status but on how their personality fits with independence, solitude, and self-directed lifestyles. [4]

Are single people more socially isolated than people in relationships?

Single adults can face a higher risk of social isolation, but many compensate by maintaining wider and more active social networks than couples.

Research on social ties finds that singles are often more involved with friends, neighbors, and extended family, which can buffer against loneliness and support good mental and physical health, underscoring that the quality and diversity of connections matter more than having a romantic partner. [5]

What evidence-based self-care practices are especially helpful for single adults?

Mental health research points to several strategies that support single adults’ well-being: cultivating close friendships, engaging in regular physical activity, practicing good sleep and nutrition habits, and setting intrinsically meaningful goals all have strong links to better mood and life satisfaction.

Intentional solo activities—such as hobbies, travel, and creative pursuits—can also foster a sense of autonomy and competence, key psychological needs associated with long-term happiness. [6]

How are global attitudes toward singlehood changing over time?

Demographic and sociological studies show that rates of never-married and divorced adults are rising worldwide, and many societies are slowly becoming more accepting of remaining single into midlife and beyond.

However, stigma and legal disadvantages for single people—such as tax penalties or limited access to family benefits—still persist in many countries, meaning cultural norms and policies have not fully caught up with the growing number of adults who spend substantial portions of their lives outside marriage. [7]

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